Am I Lying to Myself About This Marriage!

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I'll be very interested in what the vets have to tell you. I feel for you as I am in a very similar situation.

The fact that they cannot be apart because of being work associates makes it hard if not impossible to not be friends too. How can you work with someone that you have to un-friend and how can you know that if this un-friending happens, it is not just symbolic for the sake of keeping the house together?

It is a slippery slope. I feel that with all of the DBing and turning things around, the relationship could mend, but that still leaves OM in the wings.

I have very little to offer as I have asked myself and others the same questions. Is it cake eating or working toward a great relationship?