Please please don't go. I lurk here mostly, and get so much incredible insight from your posts and other the other men here who open up and share what's going on inside them. To find men who have identified their emotions and feelings and are sharing how they cope, interact and interpret them. I consider it a great honor to share in your journey and truely has improved my quality of life in many ways. The points made here have helped me behave better, to examine things I "assumed" that may not be true, to consider things that were not even on my radar, and to reassure me that my H truely does love and care about me even when he doesn't seem to communicate that.
I personally would LOVE and be totally excited to get a letter from my H like you wrote to your wife, it would clear up so many questions and wondering and give me something more concrete to work on. I appreciate your letter because it gives me some clues that I may be able to transfer to my sitch and to ask my H about. So I just wanted to thank you, and I know you put a lot of hard work, thought and effort into your posts.
