Thanks Ahoy and Labug. What makes this difficult is that superficially things haven't been this good for a long time (maybe my standards have fallen and I am just happy to eat crumbs). I don't know if I need to bring this issue up or continue to DB/work on making me a better person, going on dates, spending time together and hope that things turn around (which honestly, I think she sees nothing wrong with having OM as a friend).
