Got enough sleep last night to be exhausted, not delirious today. Gonna visit friends and watch football later. Got donuts w/ D8 this AM.
Briefly discussed D document w/ W last nite. No drama, just basic shared complaints of what the Atty had screwed up on the first draft. I teared up a bit once but kept my head.
She definitely has a playbook. I think that I almost cracked it when I told her I realize, that to her, the marriage has been done for over a year. Oct 20 is just a date on the calendar. What she sees now will be what she sees until D-day and beyond. So I want to start rebuilding trust and friendship so we can be good parents - together or apart.
She got real quiet. Not mindreading, but there was a distinct change in posture, etc. Then she shook it off and we went on about our respective evenings.
Last edited by Shakspr; 09/13/1404:08 PM.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
