Thanks everyone I was detaching and getting somewhere after she had left for 3 weeks but then the W was insistent that she come home for a few weeks to see how she felt . And that missing the kids was killing her with me being so in love with her and not ever wanting the kids to think I hadn't tried everything I agreed . I knew it was to early and in talking to her we both agreed on that . I've started reconnecting with old friends and started going out socialising but the funny thing is she sees it as a good thing and me moving on . She has noticed all my 180s and even commented on the 2 weeks that she was in the house that it has never been so tidy no clutter or mess anywhere something that she was very critical of with me that I would just sit there watching TV while she did the housework . But she says it's to little to late . It was something she said to my D12 when she left " give it a few weeks and the house will be such a mess that you will all be begging me to come home " How wrong was she me and the kids have become a very efficient team .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
