Undrop...not in so many words. But yeah, the whole divorce idea hadn't been spoken of in quite some time. But it's been complicated.
Today WAS going great. Lots of friendly talking. She even had me come in the bathroom and talk to her while she showered to go out for her friend's bday.
She even came back super happy and friendly and we were chatting all friendly for a while. Then she suddenly shifted gears and started talking about my rebound EA again, so things turned sour. I did my best to validate her anger and diffuse things.
I guess I knew this was coming, I'd just hoped to avoid it.
So you really don't know where this is going. If you are actually coming back together there's a need to sort things out, talk about going forward. A good R can't be built on the crumbled foundation of the old one. It'll be the same R, most likely even worse.
Do you feel you're walking on eggshells because of her anger?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
