Just had a really good late night chat with the wife.. It was probably the warmest, most flowing chat we have had since the proverbial hit the fan!!..

She texted me about some new furniture she had delivered, and that she spent all day putting together on her own.. She needed to know about some PC stuff and it was just easier to call instead of texting..

I had every intent of making it a quick "yep, this is how it is done" chat, but the conversation ended up turning to other "small talk", and the next thing you know it was an hour and a half later.. I stuck to the not pressuring or chasing and LISTENED to what she was saying.. I also let her initiate the bulk of the conversation..

Admittedly, I'm a bit torn over it as I didn't really stick to the rules of "short, sharp and sweet", but the conversation was going so well from both sides that it didn't really seem like it was as long as it was..

Have I stuffed up, or is it a good thing that we spoke the way we did??..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..