Thanks guys been reading your thread gotan and the similarities are scary and it so hard when you love them so much and nothing seems to work .
I've tried sticking to the rules but it's so hard I let my heart and head take over and try and talk cuddle her rub her feet and the whole time she just keeps saying I don't want to give you false hope , I'm like even a little hope is good


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .