"Why should my time with my children be diminished because of his bad choices"?
I think about this all the time. Because he has moderate determination and no desire to work on our marriage I have to be away from my daughter. Why can't we all be together and work HARD to show her what it takes to make a strong marriage, that it's not all puppies and rainbows and that it takes work and dedication and drive and determination. Isn't THAT what we want to teach her?!
She actually said something like,
"I hate that I miss daddy and when I see him, I miss you. And then when I'm with you I miss daddy again. I hate this. Why can't we all be together again?"
Does she ask HIM these questions? I want to just throw him under the bus and say, "this is all your dad's decision, honey" but I won't.
thanks for your support guys.
I will find another job, raliced, I know that. Tonight I heard of an opportunity but it pays pittance and I can't live on that.
