I wish I had some words of wisdom about your daughter. That is the hardest part of this for me to comprehend. I can get H falling out of love with me - but doing this to the kids that he has always claimed to ADORE? I still can't wrap my head around that one.
I know the kids need to see their father and I will encourage that in my situation - but I won't lie - the biggest bitter thought that continuously runs through brain is "Why should my time with my children be diminished because of his bad choices"?
Hang in there SS - tomorrow is another day. And you WILL find a better job!