Thanks, both- I need to get a backbone! Just soo many months of conflict over the A (that clearly did no good) that now its hard for me to do anything that will cause more conflict now that we are at least "getting along." I got realize "getting along" is just me agreeing to her game of cake eating and toughen up!
Me: 45 W:43 M: 15, T:21 2 Kids- S-14, D-12 A Started: 10/2013 Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014 A changing, not ending Start DB'ing 9/2014 Same house, same bed