Thank you so much Georgiabelle, I have just read a great piece of advice you posted on Ahoy's thread - "The only solid advice I have is to conduct yourself in a way that you can look back and say that you did what you could and handled yourself with grace in the process." - such wise words, my kids are watching me and have seen all the pain and hurt this has caused, but I'm hoping they will also learn that life goes on no matter what and that we will be all be okay.
This site has been such a help to me and I have been reading through the posts most days for guidance and inspiration.
Thanks again Stacey
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014