Your "Guide" is very good...geez, so many things are identical. I could almost use it instead of mine. I've probably put 20 hours into writing my list and might like to post it...It's just too "personal" right now. I would have to change the "voice" from I to "the high drive spouse" and "you" to "the low drive spouse" etc.
Would a LD spouse prefer it in the 3rd person? Have you (or anyone else) used your guide with a LD spouse? What was the result?
