haha pilot I played soccer as a 5 year old and I often wonder how the coaches managed to get us organized. I recall most of the time standing around chatting with my friends on the defense line until something would happen. But maybe that was because our offense was the best - we actually won the playoffs! One of the forwards had to show her birth certificate because she was so good.
I remember most of the coaches fondly. Don't be too much of a hardass though, it's supposed to be fun, not the World Cup. Not that you would! haha.
It's interesting how our situations have changed I think. You and I were kind of teaming up on the focus-on-making-myself-happy and seem-like-I'm-moving-on GAL track. And I think it backfired a little bit for us both.
Now I see that too much moving on can possibly make the WAS shut down feelings to protect themselves.
Let's hope we can both turn it around without becoming too pursuing... a delicate balance especially as a female LBS. I feel I cannot pursue at all. But then I see others like Ss asking their WAHs for lunch or dinner... should I be trying that. I have no clue.
Not that you would! haha.