FWIW, the NC appears to have worked. After 2 weeks she finally asked if we should meet for lunch to "discuss things". I didn't respond for a day and she pinged me again. I said I had plans but could meet for coffee. She did not respond. This is another example of her checking to see if I'm still on her hook.
6 weeks and not a single "how are you", "miss you", "lets catch up". Who does that? My wife. And now she's just checking in to see if I'm still available.
The next day she sent a request for money. Ironic, because when the email came in I was on the phone with my attorney.
W doesn't realize where I'm at. If we do meet this weekend I will find it very hard to listen and validate as you can imagine, instead I want to confidently show her I am done and moving on.
M:35 WW:32 Dated 8 years M: 2 BD 6/12/14 S: 7/29/14 No kids Reconcile: 9/25/14 Moved back: 10/7/14
