Dave, as the resident lawyer here, I strongly advise you to have anything review by your crack legal/psycho staff here at the SSM message board prior to releasing said document to your W.
I also have some Qs for your W: Is this document going into Dave's Permanent Record? Is he bound by this document if, later in life, he discovers that he has an as-yet-undiscovered fetish, e.g. he likes to see you dressed up as a French Maid or perhaps Wonder Woman? Can this document be amended if such a fetish develops? Is this document part of a negotiation process, or is it intended to be your H's final statement of his minimum requirements? Will the document remain private, or are you going to share it with your psychologist, your lawyer, your friends, your family, random strangers, Dr. Ruth, The National Enquirer?
Just getting started here...but I guess the point is, there are a lot of pitfalls here. I agree with CeMar in the "how do you say 'I want you to desire me more than you do' without sounding stupid?"
