Between the atty and the divorce news and Smokey's suprise encouraging support and barrage of questions...I'm shaking a bit. I handled it all ok. Little Heather was a little freaked out. Big Heather stepped in and shut the convo down. Enough.

My atty was very nice this morning. I began to cry a bit when I brought up Smokey's lack of anything in D12's life. He said he believes our moving is going to be a good thing. Smokey will probably just let us be...I started to say how sad I feel for D12 and he said...well, to her, this is becoming normal. To you, you see how things should be...for her...this is her normal and that makes it ok. It helped.

Don't get the surprise text though. He didn't respond when I wished him a Happy B'Day...but, now?? When his atty tells him I'm filing for divorce?

I sense he is relieved we are leaving and unhappy with his current life all at the same time.

Last edited by LoisB; 09/12/14 05:06 PM.
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