Hey GGG(G)! I tried to get my W to go to the Mutts/wine event we have here for years but she never would go. My D14 and I volunteered at Paws of Austin together and had so much fun! Mom just stayed at home and played video games. Hope you have a great time! Careful you don't come back with any new little guys or gals. Sometimes it's hard to look into those eyes behind the cage......
As for GUBU saying "..believe it or not, this hurts me too...". Oh, yeah, then STOP doing it! Would you leave your hand on a hot stove top while it hurt more and more or would you take your DAM HAND OFF!! Geez, these MLCers drive me crazy with their crazy! If they feel guilt...you made them feel it. If what they are doing hurts...but I have no choice! It all boils down in their minds the same as a child saying "But he/she MADE me do it!".
How in the world do these people survive with the emotional maturity of 10 year olds? I'll tell you what from what you have said about what GUBU has written in his online dating descriptions he sounds like he may have a pretty good imagination for writing "fiction"!
So, have you heard anything about if he is cleaning out the basement and fixing the bathroom because he needs a place to stay? Or would that just be too painful?
Have fun at the Mutt/Wine event! Can't wait to hear all about it!
