She texted me just a little ago saying that she is proud of me (regarding my new job) and wants to go celebrate.
It will just be the two of us.
Since BD, every time she wants to go to dinner with me (w/out the kids), there is usually something up -- To go over details of controlled separation agreement, To grill me about the OW I was talking to online, etc.
This time, I feel there is no "agenda" and she simply wants to spend time with me. I'm going in with that exact mindset. I'm going into this with no pressure. I will not pursue. I will not engage in R talk, or talk about our future (or at least try not to).
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!