What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

I think I went into a protection mode while trying to detach.... And this is exactly why,

I sent her a text today and said "I'm going to try and hold onto the house" and got back "lol i was just about to tell you to go ahead and list it, why the change of mind" so i said "i love the house and i'm not ready to let it go" and got back "ok but i want to make sure you're doing it for you and not me"

Want to talk about hulk smashing an olive branch.