But you can control most of what you wrote above that. smile

That's good news.

And you have a very smart, emotionally astute 7 yr old with whom you've created a space in which she can express her feelings to you.

Better news!

Take a minute, feel the pain, understand where it comes from and let it move through you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss