Dave36:

What it appears you want is what a lot of us guys want, "DESIRE". LD spouses have little to no "desire". I will bet you really don't want specific acts, what you really want is your wife to "DESIRE" sex and intimacy as much as you do. You want to know that the person you are making love wants it as badly as you do. Any person tht can create a drug that would restore desire to women will become the richest person the world has ever known!

What may help in the short term though is to look at the post I made a while bakc and someone else modified. It might give you some ideas. Cemars Guide for LD spouses