igit, The soccer meeting went well! I am so excited about this. I am even more excited that they really expect you to coach...even to the 3 year olds. In our old town when my oldest was 3 and did the YMCA soccer, it was just herding cats...no coaching before games or anything. Here, they have 5 days of practice (1 hour each) before the first game. So I will have to develop a coaching plan that will keep 3 year olds entertained, as well as learning, for an hour. Same with the 5 year old team. But I could not be happier!!!

Good to hear you are getting away for a few days. It should help keep you sane! I see no problem with explaining to the teacher/principal about your pending D. It will help them understand the turmoil in your kids' lives right now. I would not feel the need to bring W in on that conversation. Let her parent on her own. I am sure your W will feel the stress of the hearings in front of a judge, and it definitely will make things more real. Be strong, but be open. I have read this is a time where many WAS really give it a second thought....


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16