Just a friendly reminder to you guys. I know you are just speaking and venting here on the forum, but you have to be careful you do not use religious beliefs or morality as a tool to try and win back your spouse. Guilting them does not work. And even if you do not consciously do it, you may be doing it subconsciously.
Besides, everyone sins. And everyone can be forgiven
Point well taken, pilot. My faith is quite personal, and I can assure you it's not something that has ever come up in the context of what my spouse is doing except here on the forum. I do believe what he's doing is wrong for many reasons, some religious, some strictly moral (without a religious connotation), but I don't ever express that to him. He has to feel that for himself through his own filters, whatever they may be.
I sincerely apologize if I've offended anyone here.
