Unfortunately, there are plenty of women out there with really low standards.
Just read whatisis's thread about online dating.
It's hysterical! The mere fact that their possible "matches" are breathing and have access to the Internet seems to be enough for some people.
I too would have divorced GUBU way back in the beginning if I hadn't found this board.
But through research, even then, I knew he was in a MLC. I got a book about it.
(Which he got angry about, saying that HE wasn't in a MLC, and sent a picture of it to OW saying: "HAHAHA! How crazy is Goat Gal? THIS crazy! SHE thinks I'm having a MLC, when in fact, WE both know that I'm just a stud in LOVE with his (would-be) granddaughter!!!" I found all this out later. And now it makes me laugh. I wonder if he remembers... Maybe I should leave that book lying around again. See what he thinks!)
Yes. Something is really wrong with them. No doubt about it. But even though it seems everyone around them--who has their act together--can see that they're really making a mess of things, they can't see it.
Then they go and surround themselves with messed up people who support their choices--including new Online Pals---and it's a recipe for disaster.
Hang in there, kiddo.
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?