Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

Thank you Sandi!

That is what I was thinking. I have been doing that a little in the last few days. The other day I was helping stage the old house with the wife and MIL. And she had to run to the store for some lunch stuff for the kids. Her mom stayed while I was there and with out saying good bye to the wife I just left. When she came home she called me and asked why I left because she wanted to spend some time with me. I said I had some other stuff to get done and said I'm sorry I couldn't stay. Yesterday we had the realtor come out and take pictures of the house. After he was done we talked a little and made sure she was ok on a health stand point. And gave my kids hugs and kisses to the kids and left. We had a football game for S12 in 45 min. She asked aren't you going to stay and I politely said no that I was going to run home real quick. Knowing she probably wanted to ride to the game together(family time). We met at the game and instead of her sitting by other family's and friends. She came by me for the whole game. She said during the game that we should ride together to the kindergarten round up for the little one after the game. I declined and said I couldn't because of my first night subbing on a bowling league and had to drive separate(showing others family together ness). At kindergarten round up, you guessed it she came and sat by me. We did some small talk and left. When we left she mentioned have fun bowling. I said I will.

I say that because this is part of my GAL. And just to show it does some times spark there interests. When ever she has found out about me doing something that shows my moving forward in life she calls me for no reason at all. Of course I got a call from her during my night and of course it was for nothing at all. By the way my bowling game needs some work. Still was fun.

More about your advice Sandi. Every thing that you stated is true. Only thing that I can't stop doing is being there emotionally for her that is one of my 180's that I really want to work on. But maybe It could be a little less.