Thanks, job. I didn't call him, nor will I bring it up. I can see where that is tempting, but it will not get me closer to what I want, it will take me farther away. I'm ignoring it, as far as he's concerned....I know nothing. I haven't even mentioned the seemingly "obvious" comments here and there, or something in a photo I would have questioned before all this started... I keep my mouth shut now. I go more quickly now from sad, to angry, and now I'm feeling more embarrassed for him. Like if/when the fog lifts, how difficult it will be for him or realize all he's done. It makes me wonder whether he could face it, or if he will remain stuck. I have the gift of this board and such wonderful support, I have the awareness to process things now. He doesn't. That must be a living he!!.
