Insanity! I will add you to my prayer list as well, rppfl! The Holy Spirit is convicting each of our spouses. They may be ignoring him right now, but they will not be able to do so forever.
Thank you, prayers are appreciated. I work for this church, so going elsewhere is not an option. And I'll get to deal with H on a weekly basis about church business no matter what happens, and I'll have to treat him just like any other parishioner. I didn't pray for patience but it's being taught to me nonetheless.