If not their choice, whose? It's a bizarre way of thinking. And GUBU's response to my invite to attend the SPCA fundraiser is more of that same way of thinking. (See below)
No matter how they FEEL, they can make other "choices". Feelings are not destiny.
I'm starting to think they have a lot more conscious choice in the matter than we want to believe.
At some point, they are giving themselves permission. All things being equal.
I get that they "feel" driven to do these things, but isn't the sign of mature behavior being able to put your feelings aside and do the right thing?
Yeah, I know. They're just teenagers with the peach fuzz long gone...
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?