Btw - that ring on your finger is not just a covenant between you and your H, it's between you and God too.
You know, it's interesting you say that. Before our wedding, we had required sessions with the priest, and he made that point. About 15 years ago I found out that H had been exchanging racy emails and phone calls with one of my best friends who lived in another state. The thought that my wedding vows were actually made to God was what got me through that difficult time.
I took my wedding bands off in June the day H rolled in at 6:30am after having spent the night with OW. He had previously told me he had broken it off with her to work on M. I was up all night worried about him. I haven't worn them since.
