Feels like an eternity (Mindsin - part. 3)

[mindsin]

what happened when you were with your OWs?

I know about the time she tried to reach you when she was pregnant and you were with an escort ( and that hurt her etc)

but what about these types of things? Did you just leave her to handle the kids?

In other words, what "customs" did you guys have then?

They were usually done in 1-hour sessions. Before we had children, it was easy. After our 1st child was born, I had to find more creative ways. I'd usually take time away from work (calling in sick, etc). It was in the middle of the work day. My wife was usually at work (or traveling), and my son was staying with her parents (who are retired) during the day.

I kept my double-life very well hidden from her. I never spent evenings or nights (or overnights). When my wife came home from work, I was almost always there. The time I told you about when my wife was 8 months pregnant and calling me -- that was a rare occasion.