You may want to check out Dr. Dobson's book "Love Must Be Tough". It's along the same lines as DB/DR and it's geared towards spouses dealing with affairs.

Btw - that ring on your finger is not just a covenant between you and your H, it's between you and God too. Even though your H may not be taking it seriously right now, I guarantee God is and will provide you comfort when you look to him for it. :-)

FunDad

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M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
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