Yes, that is the crux of the matter...lack of trust in my h.
Quote: thats the suspicious "I NEED TO KNOW WHAT YOU'RE UP TO" Cindy which very few guys would be attracted to...for obvious reasons..not exactly a good move..
In retrospect, I see this was not a good move! Absolutely need to avoid next time!!!!
Quote: C'mon Cindy, you and I both know that it was a concert he knew he was going to. If he REALLY WANTED you to go, he would of asked you..he didn't and now its your responsibility to INVITE yourself?
Could he be so insecure that he would not invite me? Fear of rejection? But you are right why do I have to drop hints? Why not just come out and ask if I can go if not well then I make other plans!
Quote: Thats CONFIDENCE, thats INDEPENDANCE, and that is what works to keep him at bay, not telling him you're feelings were hurt about this and that...ya gotta be a little less FRAGILE when things don't go your way all the time..
You are right AGAIN! Need to be less fragile!
You are correct that assuming he wants what I want all the time would be hurtful to our m. Most of the time if he wants me with him he comes out and asks...doesn't take no for an answer usually. So I don't know what he means by 'well next time act like you are interested and you can go' but doesn't ask me to go?!
Am I just stupid? Or is he trying not to hurt my feelings by saying hey this is a guy thing don't come?
