If they decide not to return as long as we've done the work we can move forward with dignity, respect and love for ourselves. But we must do the work to get there.
I know I don't want the woman my w has become. So I will have a new R - just not sure if is going to be with the new her or not at this point. One day they may come out of the fog.
Same here. I have seen my WW three times in the past three plus months. The first time was two days after she left. She was cold but her appearance was the same. The second time, she was still cold, but this time her appearance was darker. The third time, I could hardly recognize her. It actually felt bad being around her.
When we first met, she had a sparkle in her eye, and I even asked her if she was a Christian, because it seemed she had joy bubbling up inside. She was. Now, that sparkle is gone. It's very sad. So, I'd have to say also that I would not want the woman she has become to come back.
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