Wife Still in MLC but has now left #4

[Lifes Twists]

Matt,

Look at your response and critique it as if someone else here wrote it and what would be your response to them. Look at your words describing your wife and ask if these are the words of someone who has detached. What would be your advice to that person? After reading your own response would you ask this person why they spend so much of their response writing about their wife?

Matt, you are building up so much anger within yourself and we all know this by your venting here. Venting is good as long as it is not consuming you. Right now you are and you are spewing all around. You are allowing things to happen to kep feding that anger. You need to let it go some how.

Let me make a few suggestions. I would suggest that every time you get angry at your wife that you write it out on a piece of paper and put it in a jar. At the end of the week empty the jar out and read all your notes for the week. If any are important towards your divorce set those aside in a file. Regarding the remainder, come here and post one venting post for the week and get it out of your system. Once you have posted your vents then go get a match and light your notes on fire to remove them from your life. The remainder of the week vow to only post about what you are doing for yourself and your daughter without a single word about your wife. It will be hard, but your really need to let most of it go or it will eat you up. This doesn't mean that if a crisis comes up that you can't write about it, just don't make everything a crisis.