The way you describe your Hs behavior gives men a bad name. Regardless of man or woman that kind of behavior is abusive. Words and body language are as effective as physical abuse in leaving scares.
You may find it hard moving out of state without first getting his permission to take your son with you. I would ask your lawyer how far you can move without permission. Moving 50 miles away might just be enough distance where he won't put in the effort to travel there and back often. You may find you can move anywhere within your state. That could put many miles between you.
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