You are doing amazing mighty! Please believe that. You are supporting your whole family emotionally and living in reality. It is a huge load to carry.
I just want to reiterate what others have said that though it may seem like other people think it's honky dory for your x to be starting a new family - really no one except for hww mother thinks it's cool.
I am sure they face a lot of awkward silence when they face people. Rather then face what they are doing and whom they are hurting they just simply blame you.
What jerks. Karma is a b!tch
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