Heather, thank you. You are right, I need to look at getting out and having some FUN, not looking for another long term relationship. I need some confidence boosting. Problem is getting out there to meet people, will work on that.
I am pretty sure now you have made a few decisions about financing your new home you will get this sorted fairly quickly. Don't stress, get up there check out a few and I am sure you will come home satisfied.