What to do when an EA involved?

[25yearsmlc]

I really wish WAW's would think of the pillows before they decide to pull stunts like this.

She just texted me about getting back to the realtor of my answer. After a few texts back and forth that almost sounded like she might be asking for more time (but not wanting to tell me) i said go a head and tell the realtor we are ready to list.



she was perhaps giving you a signal...and you didn't want to... what??, RISK her saying "no it's not a signal" -- so YOU crushed HER olive branch, and went ahead to push for the sale?

I can't tell if it's your fear or your wounded pride or both, but you are NOT letting the best part of you make decisions...too bad for both of you


Should I ask W if she thinks there is any chance of R and let her know I would be willing to hold onto the house if she just wanted some time to work things out on her own?

Tell her YOU would like to "try and keep the house if you can swing it, for several reasons" (be vague at this point so you don't feel too "emotionally exposed")

but it SO sounds as if you want to slow this down and she might too...

don't rush this b/c your afraid of having our ego bruised again. And I say that knowing it has been hurt. But it'd be a lot worse to wonder, forever, if you had let your pride and anger push you and her into a divorce NEITHER of you seems sure of...