Ok after discussion with a gal pal, I find that as a result of this concert fiasco I need to be more clear about what I want from h. I guess asking if other gals were going didn't indicate to him that I was hinting at wanting to go too.

I talked to h this am after getting his voicemail. I told him I was sorry for not being more clear about wanting to go with him to the concert. I told him that I had ASSUMED it was a guys night out when he said no gals were going. H said well next time just let me know you are interested and you can go!

I said I had my feelings hurt too when he said he had gals in the car. He said what girls, I didn't say anything about girls. I said oh, ok must have misunderstood you last night then.

He must have been drunk cause he doesn't remember saying anything about other gals. There were 5 guys in the car with him...no women he says!!!

So apparently even if other guys aren't bringing their gals my h will let me go!

Ok so now do I could ahead and get those Melissa Ethridge tickets and go on a gals night out!? I was doing it meanly before but now I want to go...maybe take h too cause he was only misunderstood !

It's clear sailing again...lesson learned say what I mean, ask for what I want!

Cindy