What to do when an EA involved?

[pilot]

While I am not completely familiar with your situation, I do know that in most cases, one incident does not doom you, nor save you. Everything is measured in baby steps. You may or may not have missed an opportunity for a positive. No point in worrying about what has already happened. Worry about what you know and what you can do in the future. You know your w was worked up and upset. You know she seemed to be reaching out. If she is really having second thoughts, she will approach you again. But do not expect it. Keep working on your own 180s, your own GAL, and your own PMA. Be the person she wants to be with...not just a person she is forced to be with. Big difference.

Good luck!