I believe I mentioned before that I left my h because he was unemotionally available and emotionally neglectful of his sons and I. I did not file at that time. One month later after less and less contact from h, him partying, drinking, etc, I came to our house and for some strange reason decided to look in his gym bag and found condomns (he has a vasectomy). When I confronted him he said he didn't need to explain nothing to me, didn't use but then the condoms were back in his bag the next day.
