My W works at a Christian school and has OM. I know mine has some major guilt issues. I've told her if she goes no contact - I will forgive her and try to figure out my short comings in this.
I know God will forgive her, but she may never be able to forgive herself.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14