I do realize that the whole thing with the dog is part of the emotional abuse. Shining you are right. I have been living with this for so long I am doubting my own judgements.
A few months ago I really wanted to stand for h because I believed he was sick and someone needed to believe in, him.
Now I realize that can't be me. I am looking back at our marriage and seeing all the ways he put me down. And I gave it back because I have a sharp tongue and am stubborn. But there were things he said that I came to believe. Th er e were times his drinking was bad and I slept with a knife next to me. But he always apologize and convince me he loved me aND needed me and things would be ok even good for a few months or even years. He never hurt me but he would tower over me in a very treating way and make veiled threats that he could always say I just took the wrong way.
I talked to L about leaving state and going close to my family. She said that would be difficult since h wants to be with s. I need to explore options for renting an apartment with my lousy credit. We completely focused on fixing h credit and paying off his debt. Mine slipped further and further down and we always said we would take care of it in the future. Very stupid plan.
This was pretty much my life. Expect h would not do what needed to be done for pets. He just thought if he got it wrong he would nevertheless hear the end of it as w1 never let him forget one dog he did pts.
Her side was he shot the dog over her head and his sons head it was dangerous not she disagreed with him doing it. So they were almost in the line of fire.
His version she felt he should never have done it, and she would never let it go.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
