newbie need help needs help part 4

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Nmwb123, yes w was really into our church more so then myself. She in fact told me she really grew closer to God in Sept last yr and was praying for me to find G back in Sept of last yr. Then she has A in Nov . I told her that was hard for me to understand. Hmm find God , pray for husband, have an A. She was tongue tied. Anyway she gave up on our church. Going to new church where know one knows her. I am glad she is going, you can't hide from God. It doesn't matter what church you go to. My w has told me she was ashamed, and guilty, not much I could say! I didn't want to validate because I didn't want to make her feel any worse then she already felt. Your wife saying she was going to hell kind of same thing. Don't kid yourself she will have to deal with this and God at some point let her go deal with it herself. She knows it's wrong. Hang tuff you are just getting started.