Had mediation today - spent probably $1000 on L's between the to of us and she get an extra $17/month in child support once one of us leaves the home or D is final. WTH

I asked W if we could sit down and figure out property because I feel the L's want to drag it out as long as possible. When I bring up these things, W backtracks and says I don't want to do this to son - I don't want to hurt him. WAW w/ OM possible MLC. I don't know what she wants and I'm not sure she does either. But as long as there is OM with continued contact - I'm done. When I told her that she said I haven't spoke to or been in contact for a while. I asks what a while is and she said about two weeks.

Asked for access to cell phone records and haven't received a response. So I'm GALing and looking forward. Should I bring it up again or just assume it hasn't stopped? Hasn't stopped is where I'm at now.

I will be fine but it breaks my heart knowing what son is going through.

Hard to go dark living in the same house with son. Any suggestions?

When / how do they get so selfish? unhappy? Only God knows.


Me: 55, W: 46
T: 17 M: 15
S: 10
3 S prev M
25 23 21
Unhappy 10/12
Asked to move out 1/14
NILWY 2/14
Sep rooms: 1/14
BD 3/14
W filed 5/14
Trial 12/14


Do the right thing - no reason needed