One of my best friends recently reminded me to think about what IS today, not worry about what could be in the future. So here's what I came up with for today:

TODAY H and I had a decent conversation, even without total agreement

TODAY I renewed my insurance license, just in case I need it

TODAY H and I planned to do D4's birthday together, as a family (even if we are not a couple)

TODAY I laid out that there will be boundaries he can't cross and I don't have to be accommodating as I have been in the past

Not too bad, all in all.


Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together