One of my best friends recently reminded me to think about what IS today, not worry about what could be in the future. So here's what I came up with for today:
TODAY H and I had a decent conversation, even without total agreement
TODAY I renewed my insurance license, just in case I need it
TODAY H and I planned to do D4's birthday together, as a family (even if we are not a couple)
TODAY I laid out that there will be boundaries he can't cross and I don't have to be accommodating as I have been in the past
Not too bad, all in all.
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together