Matt. Sorry about the latest developments. None of it is surprising considering what you have posted about your wife.
The time out sounds like a good idea. Keep communication to a minimum and only about your ds. Let all the business of D be handled by lawyer.
What do you think will happen if you bring out your journals about her depression. Has lawyer advised about this? How much do your ds already know about her condition?
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15