You know what Mighty? I don't blame you ONE BIT for all of that stuff coming out! That was bottled up for months inside you, and I do think your letting it all out was a good thing. Sometimes, even if we're not following the DB rules to the letter, we have to SAY things! And if there's one thing I've learned from my MLC'er, it's this: they DO hear you, and I'd bet that what you think about them DOES matter to them, even if they say or act like it doesn't. So maybe let all that sink in for a while. He'll process it. Maybe it will make him sit up, look around, and start trying to figure out what the he!! he's doing! Hang in there...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
