I love how they tell you they've "changed" but you can look them in the face and go, "No you haven't; you're doing the same crap you did when your last relationship ended."
My H also cheated on and left a girlfriend before me. I told him (before I decided to DB) that that's exactly how this is playing out; he became unhappy and rather than communicate or try to work on it, he just slept with someone else and then left.
Anyway, hang tight. You'll get a lot of support here, even if you just need to vent. Validate his feelings. Keep your mouth shut about YOU and the R, until he's ready.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".
